This Is Who I Am (AUDIOBOOK)

This Is Who I Am (AUDIOBOOK)

Narrated by Abby Craden
Run Time: 7 hours and 8 minutes

When menopausal chef Cass Little meets a brilliant, asexual mathematician grieving her past, an unexpected connection forces them both to rewrite their definitions of love, desire, and acceptance.

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Love doesn't always follow the recipe...

Cass Little has built a life defined by two passions: food and control. As head chef she’s used to perfection—except when it comes to her own body. Menopause has taken its toll, leaving Cass struggling to accept a body she barely recognizes. She’s convinced that love, like her libido, has long left the building.

Estelle Raymond is back in Clearwater Bay to grieve her father—and escape a lifetime of expectations. A brilliant mathematician, she’s comfortable being asexual, but wary of the way love so often demands she be someone she’s not.

But something about Cass—a woman who loves fiercely but fears she’s not enough—awakens a desire for connection Estelle thought she’d buried. And something about Estelle—a woman who refuses to compromise her truth—makes Cass question everything she thought she knew about passion.

When old wounds and new desires collide, Cass and Estelle must learn that love isn’t always about reciprocity—it’s about trust, acceptance, and finding comfort in the unexpected.

Set in the small coastal town of Clearwater Bay, This Is Who I Am is a heartwarming sapphic romance about queer identity, self-acceptance, and the messy, beautiful ways we learn to love again.

Grab your copy now and fall in love with Cass and Estelle’s unforgettable journey.

Themes and tropes

Queer identity
Homecoming
Found family
Romance in menopause
BlissVerse

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I am so here for what this book wants to talk to me about

Harper has done it again. It's the book where I feel seen and schooled at the same time. If you are into processing stuff - I mean, this book does it. This is the first book I've read about ace individuals. It was eye opening, very touching, and still pretty hot. It's not the spiciest book, but's still a book that's like "let's talk about this" - and everyone is like "yeah, I am soo here for this conversation!" The integration of Clearwater Bay and some Blissverse MCs and supporting characters was a VERY FUN add-on. I will definitely listen to this book again. I mean. Abby Craden did another amazing job. And Carry on - I'll just keep swooning n my seat with Abby's version of Estelle's voice in my ear.

This is Who I am.

Another gem of a book from Harper. Awesome to see that she tackled a couple of life issues which was very intriguing. Thoroughly enjoyed it.

Just perfect!

An easy ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ rating!

Before diving into ‘This Is Who I Am’ I revisited ‘And Then She Kissed Me’ and I’m so glad I did. It gave me a deeper appreciation for the beautiful setting of Clearwater Bay and introduced me to many of the key side characters in this book, including the Ireland siblings.

This book blew my mind in lots of ways! 🤯 On one hand it was a riveting love story about two beautifully flawed women who each have their own talents, passions, challenges and insecurities. Their instant connection, curiosity and companionship makes for a wonderful read. ♥️

On the other hand, this book also made me feel ignorant at times. Ignorant to the difficulties Ace people face when coming out and also some ignorance to the level of confusion that it can cause those who are romantically pursuing them. I loved that this book faces into the raw emotions, the confusion, and the insecurities that come along with feeling inadequate or less than. This story will do great things to bring awareness to asexuality and the spectrum that sits under such a broad umbrella. 🙌🏼

It was also incredibly refreshing to see menopausal women represented in a much deeper way than simply needing to keep a bottle of lube in the bedside table! 👏🏼 It goes beyond the hot flashes and night sweats (although they are present in all their grim glory!) and gives readers a glimpse of the moods, insecurities and complete loss of control that sometimes accompanies women at this point in their lives.

But more than anything, this book is truly about acceptance. ♥️ Accepting ourselves and our partners for who we truly are. The good, the bad and the sometimes ugly.

To wrap up, this book IS different to Harper’s other books and yet it’s also quintessentially Harper 🤷🏻‍♀️ - pushing boundaries and raising awareness. 🙌🏼

On a lesser but equally important note, this book seriously needs to come with a hunger trigger warning! I was hungry by chapter 2 and I’m really craving a Black Forest soufflé now… 🤤

"This is Who I Am", written by Harper Bliss.

I always love Harper's books, and this is no exception. She puts a great deal of thought into her characters, so of course I enjoyed reading about Cass and Estelle; these are the two main characters of "This is Who I Am".
A story about two older women, and dealing with their ensuing issues, nevertheless Harper produces the goods and we have a beautifully nuanced love story. I really loved the authenticity of it. Thanks again Harper.