• Promotional image for This Is Who I Am by Harper Bliss. The image features the book cover centered on a tropical beach background with palm leaves. At the top, the tagline reads: "Menopause and asexuality—two journeys of self-acceptance, one beautiful connection." Around the book, various themes and tropes are highlighted with arrows, including: Opposites Attract; WLW (Women Loving Women); Love Across Professions; Asexual Representation; Self-Discovery and Acceptance; Second Chances; Emotional Healing
  • Book titled 'This Is Who I Am' by Harper Bliss on a pink background with text: "She's asexual and I've admitted to not having any sex drive left, still, this evening doesn't feel like some sort of Victorian, overly chaste dinner date between two possible friends. In fact, it feels like the exact opposite..."
  • Estelle, a character from Harper Bliss's novel This Is Who I Am. Estelle is a confident, elegant black woman with long dark curls. In front of her is a text box with the text: “Meet Estelle, brilliant with numbers, clueless with hearts…"
  • Cass, a character from Harper Bliss's novel This Is Who I Am. Cass is a blonde chef in her fifties. In front of her is a text box with the text: “Meet Cass, seasoned and one spark away from sizzling again…”
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This Is Who I Am (AUDIOBOOK)

This Is Who I Am (AUDIOBOOK)

  • Narrated by Abby Craden
  • Run Time: 7 hours and 8 minutes

When menopausal chef Cass Little meets a brilliant, asexual mathematician grieving her past, an unexpected connection forces them both to rewrite their definitions of love, desire, and acceptance.

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Love doesn't always follow the recipe...

Cass Little has built a life defined by two passions: food and control. As head chef she’s used to perfection—except when it comes to her own body. Menopause has taken its toll, leaving Cass struggling to accept a body she barely recognizes. She’s convinced that love, like her libido, has long left the building.

Estelle Raymond is back in Clearwater Bay to grieve her father—and escape a lifetime of expectations. A brilliant mathematician, she’s comfortable being asexual, but wary of the way love so often demands she be someone she’s not.

But something about Cass—a woman who loves fiercely but fears she’s not enough—awakens a desire for connection Estelle thought she’d buried. And something about Estelle—a woman who refuses to compromise her truth—makes Cass question everything she thought she knew about passion.

When old wounds and new desires collide, Cass and Estelle must learn that love isn’t always about reciprocity—it’s about trust, acceptance, and finding comfort in the unexpected.

Set in the small coastal town of Clearwater Bay, This Is Who I Am is a heartwarming sapphic romance about queer identity, self-acceptance, and the messy, beautiful ways we learn to love again.

Grab your copy now and fall in love with Cass and Estelle’s unforgettable journey.

Themes and tropes

  • Queer identity
  • Homecoming
  • Found family
  • Romance in menopause
  • BlissVerse
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